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Bear in mind though that, just because there are several men whose improvements get constantly rejected (or who won't make the move in the first place because they believe it's a lost cause), there are loads of women who *wish* they'd get approached, while we're all busy going after the hot women -- and when they do get approached, they *still* need to worry about creepers and morons and abusers just like more in-demand women do. The supply and demand thing works in both directions.
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Ladies learn fast to walk home with keys like a weapon. We ask our friends to let us know they got home safely after a night out. We follow along on our smartphone maps to make sure Uber and Lyft drivers aren't taking us in a strange direction. And we are told by major corporations to look for warning signs that a "match" might not be the person they say they are.
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He's definitely not a PUA fan, though. If you re-read his comments, he describes PUA as the male equivalent of cosmo (and he clearly hates cosmo) so he can't be a fan of it. He only brought it up to express how deeply frustrated he was that PUA works, and I share that frustration. I mean, the Doc has spent many pages explaining why "nice guy syndrome" is poor, beginning with the fact that Nice Guys see women as objects to be attained and not individuals. All good and well, but PUAs do that to an even greater extent, and it still works!
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The messages I've obtained are pretty pitiful also. Things like just 'hi' or' 'I like your pics'. Just 1 girl actually initiated a conversation by asking a question. I feel like perhaps girls aren't used to the notion of initiating contact, but I'm sure men are just as bad.
Over the last few years, the Lord has closed the door on many relationships that ended before they began. I believe He has protected me, I'm thankful, despite my obvious frustration. But in the meantime, He really hasn't opened the door to Locals That Wanna Fuck any others, despite the fact that I'm interacting with a rather large network of peers on a fairly regular basis.
What do you think? Is catfishing something we should be able to recognize and laugh at ourselves around? Or is it a serious threat to our ego as well as our finances? To the men out there like me, how have you dealt with it?
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