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I recently went on a date with a guy whose profile said he was 44, but over the course of this date, it appeared he was 54. What's Taylor's advice for the over 50s who feel younger or want to draw a younger partner? 'Don't represent yourself as you feel -- represent yourself as you are, but let your character fill in Saint Anthony the blanks. Trust is so important, especially with online dating -- you need to be honest,' she says, adding, 'If you feel young at heart, write about your hobbies and the fun things you do, and show that on your pictures. '.
