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I am so sorry that happened to you! I'm completely disgusted at what the dating scene has turned into and I think the sites glorify it! Its no longer the guy out to impress the girl. It's show me everything you got and then we can "hook up". not happening! I am sure there are good ones out there. And you will find one. On your own time, when you least expect it!
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I guess the main aspect is that if you find each individual person intriguing, its easy to find things to talk about and to build a connection. If you don't, I'm not the right person to ask (not that you did).
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In Pakistan, women's lives are dominated by the patriarchal family structure. From choosing what to wear to what to research and who to marry, all the decisions are made by the elders. Most of the time, women don't have the authority to choose who they marry. Instead, their family finds who they think is most suitable for their daughter and marries them off as soon as they wish. And in such instances, having a boyfriend and then choosing to marry him is an act of ultimate defiance and betrayal, and Mehreen's friend who wishes to remain anonymous was guilty of "betraying" her family.
Today, dating programs don't (openly) mine our digital data as nearly much as they could. Maybe they think we'd find it too creepy, or maybe we wouldn't like what they heard about it. But if data mining were the key to the end of the bad date, wouldn'Is it worth it?
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So, from Asia, any particular countries (besides perennial favorites, Philippines and Thailand) where things are still great for 40 Sidney white men online? I've seen Japan (meh), and hope that perhaps Korea is a bit better scene. Like you, this gentleman prefers blondes, big boobs and curvaceous are pluses, but not hard requirements.
Totally agree re: the courtship model. The intention appears to be noble, but in practice it almost automatically turns into a control thing, where whatever fears and biases we have about physicality are allowed to run wild. Sex gets cast as the enemy, subliminally if not outwardly. Takes years to unwind that kind of thing in a marriage.
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