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But it is not the service which algorithmic-matching websites tend to tout about themselves. Instead, they claim that they can use their algorithm to find someone uniquely compatible with you--more compatible with you than with other members of your sex. Based on the evidence available so far, there's absolutely no evidence in support of these claims and a good deal of reason to be skeptical of them.
Considering that the "disposable" nature of workplaces, what is the benefit in truly understanding those you work with or who work for you? Furthermore, how do leaders or managers who see such turnover in their company get to know every new hire in a more substantial way than checking them like they want a dating profile? How are leaders fostering an environment of curiosity about each other so that workers aren't only North Arlington Who Want To Fuck Tonight commodities, and long-term relationships are valued as the key ingredient to company success and performance?
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