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Have you considered the issue may not be women, but you? If you've had NO success, then maybe you ought to be asking yourself "What am I doing wrong? " instead of angsting over "I approached ten women every night, none of them will go out with me, they're all a bunch of shallow bitches, this can't possibly be my fault, it's so unjust, they're simply setting up traps and waiting for me to fail. "
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Regardless of who you are, what you look like, how successful and happy you are, you will get ghosted, ignored, and have a man ask you out, look really excited, then vanish. Again, don't chase or ask them questions. Just move on. They aren't worth an ounce of your energy.
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I get what you're saying here. I had a similar experience with the next guy because he seemed very gentlemanly online and we texted a whole OK lot, but he hardly spoke in person. I guess I was expecting the dialogue to continue and felt like something was missing. In person, I really like the stoicism of a man who holds his tongue, but it seemed odd after so much communication online.
I get that guys 's profiles are equally poorly done, but given this is the new medium for connecting with qualified singles (especially those of us over 40), there is no reason why a profile should be composed of underwater scuba shoots, selfies in the bathroom mirror, selfies hiding behind sunglasses and OK a picture of the Eiffel Tower. Oh, and let's not forget my favorite, the foodie shots with the plate of sushi eaten the night before.
The near future will also be mobile, as smart phones become omnipresent. An app named Badoo (mostly popular in Europe and Latin America) uses GPS tracking to arrange dates on the fly--with Local Sluts To Fuck little more than a photograph from users. In 2012, Badoo boasted 35 million consumers. And industry leaders eHarmony, Match and OkCupid have all released new mobile applications.
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